My girlfriend has been lying to me about watching lesbian porn?

I found out via the program Google Desktop about 6-12 months ago that my girlfriend has been looking up lesbian porn. After a few times seeing this I started a conversation talking about porn or sex or something like that and then drove it into the direction of asking if she's ever watched lesbian porn before, at this point I thought it could mean nothing, and she said no(btw, we live together alone so no one else uses our computer). I then asked her if she found girls sexually attractive and she said no. So that got me a little curious but not too suspicious. Then over the next so many months I would hint at a little bit once in a while usually through a text message asking her if she's a lesbian and she would always say no. I today very seriously asked her if she's a lesbian and she said no, and then asked her if she's attracted to females sexually and i got another no. Then after hours of just being in a bad attitude toward her as she kept asking me why i think this way i started repeatedly asking her why she thinks i think this. She finally admitted to lying to me and "once in awhile" masturbating to stories of girls masturbating and "once in awhile" lesbian sex videos. She claims she doesn't find girls attractive outside of porn. I've been with this girl for 4+ years? What would you do and what would you think in my position?|||WTF dude???


Im not even 1% lesbian and I enjoy watching lesbian porn rather than boy on girl porn.


Please this has nothing to do with her sexuality, she just enjoys it. I would never think of myself having sex with a girl, but it turns me on to watch girl on girl porn.


so dont worry. its all good buddy;')|||I wouldn't take it too seriously if I was a guy and my girlfriend had lesbian tendencies. I find lots of women hot and Ok I haven't watched lesbian porn but chances are I would and I'd be turned on but I don't think Im a lesbian and I wouldn't expect my man to take it seriously. Tho I do tell him that I find some women attractive|||No, she's not a lesbian.


Porn is just very sexy and a turn on to masturbate too.


Believe me, I do it too!! But I'm NOT a lesbian nor bi.


It's just a thing, nothing serious and nothing to worry about.


Let her have her fun!|||She does not lie, she's shy about it. You shouldn't ask whether or not -- offer to watch together. No big deal. I do that with my girlfriend -- and that does not mean she's gonna find herself a girlfriend for sex at all )))|||dude, this directly means that shes lesbian. please, dont date her. over it! i know its hard, but shes not good for you. you will find someone else way better than her. you cant date that type of girl who is a lez. com on.|||Shhhhhhhhhhhhh /. Everyone has secrets and fantasy's She may like seeing it but will never act on it.





By the way you were snooping.|||maybe she is ashamed that she likes lesbian porn or things you'd leave her if you thought she was a lesbian...





why are you making it into such a big thing??? let her enjoy her escapism!!! :D|||Bring her lovely pal in,It could solve everything.|||shes either bi or secretly a lesbian.|||hot


im with gumsyhorse|||you know it would turn you on too so watch it with her %26amp;%26amp; have good *** sex after


good luck|||don trip ; maybe shes jus not comfortable about it ..


that don mean she want girls yenno ?|||She may be Bi or lesbian but is embarrassed to tell you the truth because probably you wont like it. It's ridiculous how she kept on saying "no" to you every time you would ask her, and then finally after digging down she finally admitted she had. She's hiding something and she doesn't want to tell you. Try and have a serious talk with her and ask her why did she lie to you and what's so bad with just admitting to it? If you don't like the fact that she may either be Bi or lesbian well you don't really have any other option but to leave her. But if you do like the fact then forgive her and make it clear to her that you don't like whenever she lies to you.|||You DON'T have to be a lesbian to be aroused by lesbian porn.


What your girlfriend is doing is completely harmless unless she is refusing sex with you, and using lesbian porn instead- that would show underlying issues in your relationship.





Girls 'get off' on lesbian porn because it is non-threatening and two lesbians are equals, it's also forbidden fruit for a straight girl, so it seems naughty.





I'd say think of it another way, stop hounding her about it because that will be getting on her nerves, if she was a lesbian she would definitely not still be living with you!


It can also sometimes show that she is fantasising about more foreplay (with you)- next time you guys 'get it on' shower her in foreplay. likelihood is, she'll really go for it.





Think of it like this, you've uncovered one of her massive turn ons- have you ever watched porn together before? do you like lesbian porn? USE this in your sex life.|||It's really no concern of yours what type of porn she likes to watch. There are plenty of straight women who enjoy watching lesbian porn. It's just what she likes to watch when she is pleasing herself. She enjoys seeing other women being pleased as well. It doesn't mean that she is a lesbian- just that women turn her on sexually. Personally, I find most porn with men involved to be gross and very contrived- it looks faker than it actually is and the guy (and commonly his penis) is always ugly, making gross faces and not doing the right things to the girls in the porn. Porn is geared toward men, mostly, so they typically show what men like to see, and most of the things that the men in the porn do are...off. The way the men give oral sex to women in porn is totally laughable and I hope that no man out there thinks that this is the right way to do it. Porn is for the visual stimulation of males- that is what it is made for. Of course, there are some porns that are made for women which are better, but I would say that the most accurate porn is lesbian porn. Because these women are actually doing things that look pleasurable. It's hard for a woman to find a decent porn where some guy isn't doing something totally stupid to a girl or doing it the wrong way. We women recognize these kinds of things. We like to watch people doing things that we would consider pleasurable if it were being done to us. A lot of times lesbian porn offers that. If it is done well, that is, because most of those are still trying to visually stimulate men. Anyway, I hope that what I am saying is making sense and that you realize that just because she likes to watch two girls going at it does NOT in any way make her a lesbian and you are really, really insecure. There are a lot of women who prefer to watch lesbian porn for the reasons that I have listed and I really hope you understand what i am driving at.


Also you are nosy and it isn't any of your business what porn she likes to watch., That's what gets her off, and that's what she wants to watch. As long as she is still having sex with you and meeting your needs, and her needs are being met by you, then there is no problem. IF she would rather watch porn than sleep with you- yes, that's a problem. But for you to make her out to be some kind of bad guy for not wanting you to know what kind of porn she watches-- that's ridiculous. It is her business and her business only. The way you have acted is probably going to drive her to not watch what she wants to watch when it comes to porn, and that is sad because she should be enjoying her porn without having to worry what you think about it.|||I get turned on by lesbian (anime) porn aka hentai and I'm a straight girl with a wonderful boyfriend. ^__^ I love my boyfriend more than anyone else, but it's fun to watch girl-on-girl action at times.


I think your girlfriend is telling you the truth, but since it hurts you so much you can ask her to not do it, or please delete/hide any signs she watches it. ^___^ Good luck and I hope my answer helps support what your girlfriend is telling you and that I am sure after 4 years she only loves you!!!


Good luck!|||I wouldn't be too alarmed. I think a large majority of women get curious at some point in their lives (especially teen and college years). She probably feels guilty about it and afraid that you'll be threatened. It is really quite norman and no cause for concern. If she says she's not attracted to girls in real life she's probably telling the truth. Women are much more flexible sexually than men, in general and are turned on by people acting sexually whether it be heterosexual, girl-girl, or guy-guy. This doesn't necessarily reflect relationship preferences. It could be compared to fantasies you'd never actually care to act out. If can be open about this and make her feel comfortable maybe you can open up some lines of communication and your relationship can benefit.