What would you have Done?

Today, was the wedding day of one of my oldest friends. Now I drove down over an hour+ drive plus thru construction. Anyhow, she wasn't at home when she said she would be the church was empty, and I was left out in the hot humid weather for an hour waiting on her to show up. ( she also failed to return my call with an itinerary for the day) So I got over the fact that I was up set and that my hair was ruined by the weather. And proceeded into the church to play my part and help her get ready, and down the aisle in one piece. then I was to keep her kids for the night for her and her new husband to go to the hotel and do what newly married ppl do. And after the bar/grill we were getting ready to go to her house for the night, and I pulled out to follow them to her house ( as I am not familiar with the town and she is aware of this so is her new husband) and they didn't pull out of the lot, they went out a different way. I was on the phone and so I reversed and her car was gone. I then had to take a moment. I called for my other half to google me directions to get home as I didn't know where I was. Anyways once I was directed to the main street and started driving back home, I drove to her house to drop off her wedding cake, and told her that that was too much, she asked what and I told her the fact that she left me practically stranded and her response was she wasn't driving he was, I told her that I wasn't going to argue with her and that I was going home. so would you have kept the kids anyway or would you went home as I did?What would you have Done?
You are totally right on this one. She was the one who flaked on you in numerous ways and was a complete a** to boot. I would have totally left the kids at the house and went home. It was her wedding day, but she knew that you did not know your way around her town and should have given you directions to house beforehand or waited for you to follow her. Using the fact that her husband was driving is not an excuse. He knew about the situation so he's just as responsible for this. I would question whether I would want to stay friends with someone who treated her "friends" this way.
i wouldn't only leave for home without watching her kids, i would also delete her phone number and if she ever tried to contact me i would just ignore her. she is not your friend. friends are not supposed to act like this.What would you have Done?
That was pretty sh*tty behavior on her part. Excitement of wedding day or not, doesn't make it okay to disrespect guests or friends, especially those doing you favors.



I'd probably have gone straight home and not even stopped at her place, so you at least did that.What would you have Done?
I would of told her to go to hell and never talk to her again. she is not a friend. doesnt matter if it was her wedding day or not. you are right
She was being really disrespectful and it was as if you were just someone she could step on and treat however she wanted. I totally would have left.